When somebody wrongs you and you hold onto that wrong and let it fester, you’ll soon start to believe two dangerous lies -- he’s nothing but wrong, and you’re nothing but right.
“Forgiveness flounders because I exclude the enemy from the community of humans even as I exclude myself from the community of sinners.” Miroslav Volf
“You shall not . . . bear a grudge, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Leviticus 19:18