It’s easy, especially with the people closest to you, to get into the habit of finding fault. Finding good might be a far more fruitful (and enjoyable) habit to cultivate.
“Instead of looking at the areas in which our fellow-creatures give us pain, we will look at their love and their kindness until we are astonished at it and at our own blindness which could not see it before.” Priscilla Maurice
“[E]ncourage each other and build each other up. . . .” 1 Thessalonians 5:11