If a good God is slowly shaping and molding you for good, you can relax (even when it hurts).
“We have begun to trust God. . . . Out of this trust comes a letting go of anxieties about ourselves. . . . We become clay in the Potter’s hands.” Janet Hagberg and Robert Guelich
“Lord, you are our Father. We are the clay, and you are the potter.” Isaiah 64:8